Winning teams take time to prepare. They prepare to win. They prepare for all possible scenarios. They practice how to defend against free kicks. They even prepare how to play with a man down. Doctors are licensed to practice after about 8 years of training. Most people never take time to prepare for success in marriage. That you know how to sleep with someone or that you have a degree does not mean you are prepared for marriage. You must take your time to prepare yourself by reading books, attending seminars, asking questions, growing spiritually, etc. Prepare for the journey. The level of your preparation determines the level of your success.